{"id":240927,"date":"2024-05-24T00:20:35","date_gmt":"2024-05-23T18:50:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/arunachaltimes.in\/?p=240927"},"modified":"2024-05-24T00:20:35","modified_gmt":"2024-05-23T18:50:35","slug":"how-rupa-bayor-fought-odds-to-become-taekwondo-champ","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/arunachaltimes.in\/index.php\/2024\/05\/24\/how-rupa-bayor-fought-odds-to-become-taekwondo-champ\/","title":{"rendered":"How Rupa Bayor fought odds to become Taekwondo champ"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>[Poonam Mehra]<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>NEW DELHI, 23 May:<\/strong> Kicking and punching comes easy to Rupa Bayor, and her being a pathbreaking Taekwondo player is just one of the reasons.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">After all, the youngster from Arunachal Pradesh has spent a better part of her life punching back after being punched hard by life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The most recent demonstration of it was an unprecedented bronze medal in the 8th Asian Taekwondo Poomsae Championships in Danang, Vietnam, earlier this month, less than a year after being forced to skip the Asian Games because of denial of visa by China.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;I was always a very unyielding and combative person. I could get into a fight at the drop of a hat,&#8221; the 23-year-old told PTI in an interview as she talked about what drove her to Taekwondo, given that Sippi village in Daporijo circle of Upper Subansiri district in Arunachal isn&#8217;t exactly the cradle of the sport.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The bespectacled youngster can&#8217;t be faulted though; she lost her father while still a toddler and, being the second among four siblings, she had to grow up quite quickly.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Part of the process included helping her mother in paddy farms as she toiled to ensure that the children got what was essential for some semblance of stability in life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;I don&#8217;t have any memories of my father, although I remember his face clearly. I was just a toddler when he died. I remember that day,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;His body was lying on the floor, covered by a sheet,which had me believe that he was sleeping. I saw people coming in to offer prayers and condolences and that&#8217;s when it probably struck me that something had happened.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;I asked my mother what the matter was and why dad was so still. She told me that &#8216;your father has died&#8217;,&#8221; Rupa recalled.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">That was the beginning of the rough and tumble that became her normal before her maternal uncle stepped in to offer her hope through sport.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;My mother is unlettered, and she never got to live her life. She is an orphan and was married off young to my father, who was much older than her; perhaps that&#8217;s why she ended up widowed so early,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;My uncle, who is a karate master, began training me as he felt that my aggression could be channeled into something productive. Eventually, I opted for Taekwondo as I felt it had more scope for me to grow as an athlete,&#8221; she recollected.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Yami Bayor, her mother, is in her early 40s and does not know that Rupa is now a globe-trotting sportsperson who has half a dozen international medals to her credit.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Rupa is also currently ranked 13th in the world, the highest for an Indian Poomsae competitor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Poomsae is a non-combative form of Taekwondo in which the competitors perform sequence of techniques linked together into a pattern of moves like gymnastics routines, to be evaluated by a panel of judges. This format is currently a non-Olympic category which features in the Asian Games.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;If I tell my mom that I am in Mumbai or I am travelling for a tournament, she has no clue what I am talking about,&#8221; Rupa said, who still does not have a stable job to sustain herself.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;Even if I explain to her, she cannot process it. All she knows is that her daughter is doing something good in her life and is living in a city in Arunachal. She feels that I never really go out of Arunachal,&#8221; she laughed.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Rupa spends most of her time at the Indo-Korean Taekwondo Academy in Mumbai, her training base since 2021, when her coach Abhishek Dubey introduced her to the rigours of being an elite athlete.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;I took up Taekwondo in 2015 but began training seriously as an elite athlete only in 2021. In the beginning, Taekwondo was just time pass for me, but once I got a coach in Dubey sir, I began to take it more seriously,&#8221; said Rupa, who got her first international medal at an event in Croatia in 2022.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The Hangzhou Asian Games was to be a career breakthrough for her, but she could not even participate due to denial of visa.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;Not just me, every sportsperson from Arunachal faces this. I really hope that the Indian government can ensure that this issue is resolved for good because it was a major loss for me,&#8221; she said.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">But like everything else in life, she has made peace with that heartbreak too and also the fact that her event is unlikely to make the Olympic cut.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;I will compete in the next Asian Games in Japan hopefully. One should always look ahead,&#8221; she added.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;As for the Olympics, I can&#8217;t change to combative Taekwondo now, it is very difficult. So I would stick to what I have mastered and do the best in that. I don&#8217;t want to just show up, I want to win medals,&#8221; she asserted.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Her resilient approach to life is also driven by a fellow Northeasterner&#8217;s achievements. Rupa idolises six-time world champion boxer MC Mary Kom, who hails from Manipur.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">&#8220;The fact that she is from our region adds to the pride. She is a hero, to win medals even after having the responsibility of being a mother, it is phenomenal. I want to meet her some day,&#8221; she said. 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